Last Monday, September 1, marked the beginning of a new schoolyear for all Ukrainian students. It is a big deal here, and every school has a special "First Bell" ceremony.

Students, teachers and parents all gather to mark the time that the bell rings for the first time that year --and for first graders, for the first time in their lives. As a part of the ceremony, a high school senior boy picks up a first grade girl and carries her around while she is ringing a bell.


Speeches are said and maybe there is a small concert. It usually happens outside.

This year we were invited to come to the orphanage. The children had just arrived from the summer camp at the sea on August 28. September 1 was a nice day, and the organizers did a great job with the program. The Principal spoke, some teachers spoke and even a city official came and said a short but sincere and heartwarming speech and presented the orphanage with 2 DVD players.
I was not prepared for what struck me - how few adults were there. From my school years I remember lots and lots of parents that would come to my school's "First Bell." At the orphanage, most grown-ups were teachers and orphanage workers. However, there were a handful of parents whose parental rights had been taken away that did come to wish their child a happy school year. A girl from "our" class (the kids who have been coming to our Sunday School) had her mother give her a few treats and kiss her before she left. The teacher said that her mother is an alcoholic, and that she was concerned that the daughter might follow in her mother's footsteps. The girl arrived at the orphanage last September but has run away 5 times. She was 9, but apparently, she either did not go to school at all or very sporadically, so she was put in the 1st grade class. I watched that girl look at her mother with love and longing to be with her. Of course, it was time for the kids to go inside, and the mother had to leave, and the expression of pain on the girl's face seared into my memory. The teacher later told me that the parents whose rights have been taken away are allowed to visit the children but are not allowed to take them off the grounds. Some people here think it's good for the child to know who his/her parent is, and to be able to love that parent. I just can't get over the pain of abandonment that those kids have when the parent leaves.
All children at the orphanage had just one lesson that day, and then they were free to play. During this first lesson 2 more relatives of the children from 'our' second-grade class came. One was an aunt, and she took her nephew out for a few hours, and the other was a grandfather with a granddaughter, a sister to another boy in our class. Apparently, the boy just came back from visiting his grandparents in the village, and the grandpa came to wish him a happy schoolyear.
Overall, the whole event made a happy day for the children. I don't mean to diminish the work of the teachers and caretakers there: they work very hard to raise these children. It's just the whole idea of institutionalized childhood that is so hard for me to accept. There was a ray of sunshine for me that day as I learned that one of the girls from 'our' class had been adopted out. Now 'our' class is down to 10 children. And more good news -- by God's providence, now we will have both second-grade classes come to our Sunday School. It is a huge blessing. Now we might have to 'regroup and restrategize' as we will have 17 children from the orphanage come plus the children from our church. Please pray for our church that God will provide the workers and the room to host them all. Pray that the Good News of Jesus dying for our sins would penetrate their hearts that they may bow their knees before their Maker. Please pray that the Lord will give us wisdom as we are becoming a part of their lives.